EVOLVE FESTIVAL

 Multi-partner interactions can be among the most exciting and rewarding sexual experiences, and they can also be among the most awkward and unpleasant.

PART 1 (E1) We’ll start with the 3 essential rules for creating fulfilling, drama-free, multi-partner “dates” as well as describing what situations and/or initial conditions are almost guaranteed to create a truly memorable disaster.

Those three commandments are:
1. Everyone wants to be there.
2. Everyone wants everyone else to be there.
3. Everyone needs to remain aware of everyone else, at least most of the time.

We’ll cover:
• Why do so many people fantasize about multi-partner experiences?
• What configurations can a 3some take?
• What’s different about a 4some and a 3some?
• What’s an orgy?
• What are the biggest fears going in to multi-partner play?
• What are the warning signs that “this may be a bad idea…”?
• How do we negotiate boundaries and desires beforehand?
• What are good ways to start the interaction?
• How do I check in with my partner without stopping everything?
• How does one deal with “sex brain” in any of the participants?
• How do I leave in the middle without bringing everything to a halt?
• How can we be sure everyone gets their fill?
• What are good ways to end?
• Why is it a good idea to have a closing cuddle?
• What are the potential effects on my relationships later?

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