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Monday, December 6 • 9:00pm - 11:00pm
The 3 Commandments of 3somes, 4somes, and Moresomes

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 Multi-partner interactions can be among the most exciting and rewarding sexual experiences, and they can also be among the most awkward and unpleasant.

PART 1 (E1) We’ll start with the 3 essential rules for creating fulfilling, drama-free, multi-partner “dates” as well as describing what situations and/or initial conditions are almost guaranteed to create a truly memorable disaster.

Those three commandments are:
1. Everyone wants to be there.
2. Everyone wants everyone else to be there.
3. Everyone needs to remain aware of everyone else, at least most of the time.

We’ll cover:
• Why do so many people fantasize about multi-partner experiences?
• What configurations can a 3some take?
• What’s different about a 4some and a 3some?
• What’s an orgy?
• What are the biggest fears going in to multi-partner play?
• What are the warning signs that “this may be a bad idea…”?
• How do we negotiate boundaries and desires beforehand?
• What are good ways to start the interaction?
• How do I check in with my partner without stopping everything?
• How does one deal with “sex brain” in any of the participants?
• How do I leave in the middle without bringing everything to a halt?
• How can we be sure everyone gets their fill?
• What are good ways to end?
• Why is it a good idea to have a closing cuddle?
• What are the potential effects on my relationships later?


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Charity Joy

Cliff, Charity, and Mel, known by their Empowered Pleasure Community as the CCM triad, are the co-founders of Empowered Pleasure whose mission is to empower all humans to give and receive pleasure in abundance. We believe that the first intimacy must be with the self.The mindless... Read More →
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Cliff Rees

Cliff Rees: Cliff taught meditation for 20+ years to thousands of people all over the world (Iran, India, Philippines, Switzerland, US).He's studied Tantra since 1998 with Alan Lowen, and is a graduate of Alan's 2-year Body, Heart & Soul Training. He has facilitated hundreds of workshops... Read More →
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Melanie Moseley

Melanie Moseley is a theatre artist, musician, writer, storyteller, and teacher. Her one-woman show Sexology: The Musical! explores her journey from monogamy to solo-polyamory, covering the entire range of sexuality and relationships. Sexology toured from Portland, OR to Portland... Read More →

Monday December 6, 2021 9:00pm - 11:00pm PST
Hall 2