EVOLVE FESTIVAL

After studying thousands of relationship fights, we discovered that, at the deepest level, there are really only four conflicts in love relationships. We call these conflicts Toxic Cycles because when each partner’s behavior is caught up in one of these cycles, they tend to polarize their partner into a predictable and directly oppositional position, unwittingly inviting their partner to continue the cycle rather than resolve it.

In our online courses, workshops, retreats, and 1:1 coaching sessions, we’ve seen these patterns play out again and again, and we’ve learned to recognize and understand how each person in the partnership plays a role in continuing and repeating the cycle. We discovered that the underlying motivation driving each partner’s behavior in the toxic cycle also contains the key to permanently resolving the conflict.

Rather than the pattern being a result of a character flaw or incompatibility, we found that each partner caught in the cycle was standing for an important value, an Evolving Love Virtue, that is actually necessary for an extraordinary love relationship to flourish. In this workshop you will learn how to:

• Unpack the underlying structure of conflict so you have a relational map that will help you better understand both yourself and your partner and have a map to find your way out
• Uncover the 4 common Toxic Cycles that you can get caught in, in your relationships
• Discover the 8 Evolving Love Virtues that serve as a remedy for resolving conflict
• Appreciate the beauty behind the things that bother you most about your partner
• Learn how to "say your piece" in a way that inspires powerful listening (instead of getting caught in a cycle of complaint and defense or a brick wall)
• Get off the endless cycle of unhealthy relationship patterns (even if your relationships are great most of the time)
• How to begin the process of resolving conflicts and ending the cycle permanently.

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